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John Gray
Women love to communicate and if they don't love to communicate and some women don't it's because they tried communicating and the way in which he communicated back didn't work for her. So she goes I can't talk to him. He doesn't listen. He doesn't understand. Why bother? I remember one women saying to me you know I don't relate to~사이의 관계를 설명하다 this Mars/Venus stuff because I don't ever want to talk to my husband.
I don't talk about problems like you say women do. I go, really? Think about that. Do you talk to some people? Well, yeah, I'm always talking to other people about my problem with my husband. So why doesn't she talk to him? Because he doesn't listen. What I want couples to know is that communication is what keeps the passion (이성과 대비하여) 감정, 정감 alive in a relationship
The problem is that even if you don't have good communication skills in the first three years of a relationship there will be passion there will be attraction. But if you don't have good communication skills if you don't develop them in that time the passion will go away literally. It's like God gives us free hormones for three years.
The hormones of passion and attraction. Without those hormones the relationship starts settling down. The passion goes away. The interest goes away. You star finding when you're less interested in your partner that you put less into the relationship.
And I'm speaking more a bit about men here. Men tend to ~하는 경향이 있다 lose interest in the relationship.
Women tend to have more interest in complaining about the relationship. It's amazing, women. You have to watch your greatest skill can become your greatest problem.
Women see everything. When they fall in love with a man they see him and they see all of his potential가능성, 잠재능력 so they're so happy. Three years passes reality sets in.
And suddenly she doesn't have the same response응답, 대답to him because in the beginning when she was in love she really didn't know who he was. She saw this great potential. Then after he's been late 30 times she goes, there's nothing going to change this guy. And so her feelings start becoming less and less. But potential is a great thing. It's what gives us hope. And women will often see a man's potential fall in love with that potential but then they'll try to pull that potential out of him and have the opposite 반대편의, 상반하는 effect.